By the way, GREAT quote of the day....

In case you don't get to see it until it's gone, here it is:

"Don't order any black things. Rejoice in his memory; and be radiant: leave grief to the children. Wear violet and purple...Be patient with the poor people who will snivel: they don't know; and they think they will live for ever, which makes death a division instead of a bond."

George Bernard Shaw(1856-1950)

I know I'll still be one of those that "snivel", but I also think this is a very profound way to look at death.