That sound in his voice....

Me: Hello, this is Carol...

DH: Hi, it's me.

Me: Oh, what've you been up to?

DH: Well, DD and I are heading over to the nursing home to visit your mom.

Me: Oh that sounds great!!

DH: I got her a hot cocoa, like I did last time.

Me: Oh, she'll like that. She likes anything sweet these days.

Me: So what was your day like?

DH: Well, I've had better.

Me: Oh. What went wrong?

DH: I can't discuss it with you right now, I'll tell you about it later.

Me: Oh, ok. Because I think you've got that "spending" sound in your voice again.

DH: What???!!! Well, that's an interesting thought. Remind me of that later.

DH: Because I think you might be right.

Me: Really???

DH: Yeah. How do you know that???

Me: I have no idea. Probably wife telepathy or something.

DH: Well, I'll call you back later and tell you more about it.

Me: Ok, talk to you later, bye.

He only said one sentence to me and I could tell he either had gone out to spend money (since I know his mom sent him money for cigarettes) on stupid stuff, or that he wanted to go out and spend money on stupid stuff. And I think it's been a while on this, so I could tell the difference in his voice right away. Even though it's me recognizing this, it kind of freaks me out that I can tell.

I hope that having money in his pocket is what put him into this mood, I really hope....I'm a little afraid that the Abilify might be doing something bad. And I'm a little bit worried that I might be too sensitive and probably shouldn't worry about this too much until I have more to worry about....