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Friday, March 7, 2008

Small world, of course....

Tonite DH had to go to a "class" for people who write bad checks. If he didn't attend this class, a warrant would be issued for his arrest for the bad checks he wrote in our county (and I still had to pay for them, to keep him out of jail...)

Anyhow, he went to this class, and there was someone there that he used to work with, and she was telling him what the former coworkers were supposedly saying about DH, and that really upset him, and I think it would upset a stable person.

I so much wish he was strong and healthy so that he/we could take that place to court. They really did some awful things to him, and, although I am sure I don't know the whole story, I know that the things that I know for sure, and aren't in question, are/were illegal. But I'm thinking that the statute of limitations has run out already, or will be running out soon, and we already paid $2500 for an attorney who was recommended to us by someone we thought was trustworthy, and the attorney didn't do anything at all except spend the money. And DH was going through his worst crisis at the time, and couldn't and didn't follow up on things, and I didn't know at the time, that he truly COULDN'T do it, and I thought that he just "didn't get around to it", so I never did anything either. And I think now that it's too late. So I just keep telling DH that karma will take over, we might not know when, but they will get what they have coming to them....

1 comments:

perphila said...

Sounds familar. It took my husband a year to apply for his disability. I look back and think about all the things I should have done. You know if you see things that need doing you do it. There were certain things he always did and I figured he knew what he was doing and yes, he seemed a little slow or behind but usually things DID get done but it took a very long time. The few things that didn't I discovered over time he would just not want to do them and so procrastinated until I forgot about them myself assuming he had done them and only to find out later otherwise. As for lawyers, I have one giving me a cut rate but she doesn't seem to be fighting for me at all and was even wrong about a few things. I am not crazy about the fact she advised me to keep my name on our joint account but I figured there was a reason. Maybe about geeting somethinglater I dunno but now I am holding the finacial bag AGAIN. I don't even have a real job yet. I have always scrimped and saved and found a way before but I don't know now. My husband had a raw deal in his childhood with his abusive dad but I think I/he used that too much in giving him leeway for his actions and didn't see the mental illness until it was too late. I want to win the lottery...:)